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Mona Monyane has taken to social media to discuss her co-parenting experience.
The actress took to Instagram to share photos from her daughter’s wedding, where she was accompanied by her ex-husband and co-parenting partner Khulu Skenjana.
Mona admitted that it had been difficult for her, but she chose to look on the bright side by sharing advice with others on the same path.
1. Be the peacemaker, not the aggressor (This doesn’t guarantee that your co-parent will do the same, do it anyway) 2. Remember that your child has an independent relationship with both of you, don’t make them choose between the two of you (A relationship can fail but a parent is forever) 3. Choose what’s best for the child (If your child loves you both, do your best to both be in their lives) 4. Be graceful in the face of adversity (Clutch a pearl Sis, get a lawyer if you must fight but don’t be the one being all ghetto in the streets!)”
“5. Choose to walk away from conflict rather than make things worse (No good comes from attacking the parent of your child because of your own issues with them) 6. Heal your own pain so you don’t function from EGO (Heal so you can also work from a place of objectivity and maturity when dealing with the other parent) 7. Don’t make your drama with your co-parent your child’s problem
(Our children are not here to inherit our pain and negativity, get your act together for their sake!)”
